Swizzle Stick in the Cup of Life

Everyone experiences difficult moments that can sometimes cripple you. Whether it’s a business deal gone wrong, loss of a loved one, loss of a job, or any disruption in our normal life routine.


There’s certainly no doubt that the past two years have challenged you in different ways. From the lockdowns to losing family and friends to Covid 19, loss of jobs, entrepreneurs closing down their businesses and many more. Loss of any kind can cause us to feel conflicted between carrying out our daily routines or pausing to grieve and deal with our emotions.


As much as you may want to compartmentalize and push through your day-to-day at work and beyond, grief takes its toll. It’s with this in mind that I've partnered with

MICHELLE O'CONNOR who's on a mission to create a platform to support people through challenging times. Michelle lost her Mom in January of this year to cancer. Losing a loved one is already challenging, add to that the pandemic where some of us are not able to come together as we use to. As an entrepreneur she felt stuck for about a month and wasn’t sure which direction to go in. While she is still on the journey of managing her grief, she decided to put together this conference that can help you as she also gains wisdom through this transitional part of her life.


I invite you to join us on Thursday, April 14th for the Purpose Driven Entrepreneur Conference. You'll learn new ways to move through life's unexpected plot twists from grief experts Becky Sansbury, Dora Carpenter, Zander Sprague, Sherrie Dunlevy Inspirationista and Steve Sewell.


I am inviting you as my personal guest. Click HERE to grab your complimentary access!




P.S. I am looking forward to having you and yes, you can bring a friend to The Purpose Driven Entrepreneur Conference! These are some areas that will be covered:

● Why do we grieve anyway?

● Coping with transitions in life

● How to choose positive pathways

● The Difference between mourning and grieving

● Practical Resilience for Tough Times

● Are You Ready to "Graduate" from Your Grief?

● How to welcome healing through listening, encouragement, and empowering insights.

● How to build resilience among teams during these turbulent times.

Looking forward to seeing you! Sharon


Guest blog from my friend and colleague, Jackie Ferguson from The Diversity Movement

June 1, 2020

There is unrest in America right now. Many are grappling with how to process these events and with how to protect our children among systems of racial inequity that continue to mistreat us.  On a personal level, I am sending my 18 year old Black daughter into the pre-adulthood of university life.  And there is a different fear for me than for the mothers of her White classmates. Several of them have asked me, “what can I do?” as the inequities of our justice system are glaringly apparent to more than just the marginalized.  During times of tragedy, there are opportunities for allyship. Each of us can use our voice, our influence, our platform and our power to make a difference.  

What does it mean to be an ally?  An ‘ally’ is someone who has privilege, but chooses to stand for and with marginalized communities by taking tangible, ongoing actions to dismantle systems of oppression.  Being an ally means working to develop empathy towards another group’s challenges or issues — and, ultimately, helping to create a culture in which that group feels valued.  It means that you carry the burden of one or more marginalized groups as your own.  Who can be an ally? Anyone has the potential to be an ally. Allies recognize that though they are not a member of the marginalized group(s) they support, they make a concerted effort to better understand the struggle, every single day.  Because an ally might have more privilege (and recognizes said privilege), they are powerful voices alongside marginalized ones.  Being an ally is hard work. Many of those who want to be allies are afraid of missteps that get them labeled as “-ist” or “-ic” (racist, sexist, transphobic, homophobic, etc). But as an ally, you are also affected by a system of oppression. This means that as an ally, there is much to unlearn and learn—mistakes are expected. What can you do right now to make an impact?  Listen. For allies who do not know where to start, the most meaningful thing one can do is listen to the voices of those who are often silenced. Even though you feel empathy for a situation, you can’t fully understand experiences that you don’t live. The best way to learn is to listen. Ask others if they are okay.  Educate yourself.  It is not the job of Black people to educate White people about racial injustice.  Do the work of seeking out books and documentaries and articles and allow yourself to learn from them.  In doing this, you give yourself a cultural baseline to then have meaningful conversations around race with others that will provide you deeper insights and expand empathy that lead to action.  Talk to your children. They are our hope for a better future. Talk about current events. Share your feelings with them of sadness, anger and frustration. Diversify their reading and movie lists. Call out racism and bias when you see it in the media. Don’s shy away from difficult conversations. Be an example for them. It’s ok to not have all the answers. Allies just stay in search of them.  Speak up. By now, we have all heard Angela Davis’ quote, “It’s not enough to be non-racist, we must be anti-racist.” We do that by speaking up! Make your position known. This is not ok. Speak up in your family and friend groups. Speak up on your social media platforms. Speak up at the voting polls-locally and nationally.  Participate in peaceful protests and demonstrations. Call and write your legislators. Not just during the weeks of incidents where people are having the conversations. This is your conversation.  Nurture truth-telling relationships. We cannot become allies alone.  We need the insights, perspectives, support and challenge of relationships where there is a shared commitment to speak our truths and hear each other all the way through, no matter how uncomfortable the revelations may make us.  Give back.  Use your privilege to provide information and access to those who need it. Mentor someone in an underserved community. Donate to or volunteer with an organization that aligns with your personal advocacy on these issues.  Encourage others to do the same. In doing this, you are able to create significant impact on a local scale.  Below, we have provided a quick resource list. This list is not meant to be comprehensive or exhaustive, by any means, but is simply provided as starting resources to provide perspectives that help you become an ally. 

Articles Why We Need to Call Out Casual Racism A Guide to How You Can Support Marginalized Communities How We Can Be an Ally in the Fight for Racial Justice Who Gets to Be Afraid in America? Books Uprooting Racism: How White People Can Work for Racial Justice by Paul Kivel White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo Race Talk and the Conspiracy of Silence: Understanding and Facilitating…by Derald Wing Sue Understanding White Privilege: Creating Pathways to Authentic….by Frances Kendall Books for Children (with Common Sense Media reviews) Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You, by Jason Reynolds and Ibram X The Undefeated by Kwame Alexander and illustrated by Kadir Nelson New Kid by Jerry Craft How It Went Down by Kekla Magoon Ted Talks Racism has a Cost for Everyone by Heather C. McGhee How We Can Make Racism a Solvable Problem by Phillip Atiba Goff You Have the Rite by Marc Bamuthi Joseph How to Deconstruct Racism, One Headline at a Time by Baratunde Thurston Movies 13th American Son When They See Us The Hate You Give I Am Not Your Negro (James Baldwin documentary) 12 Angry Men Podcasts Code Switch Intersectionality Matters! Momentum: A Race Forward Podcast Diversity: Beyond the Checkbox Follow Equal Justice Initiative (EJI): Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Colorlines: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook United We Dream: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ): Twitter | Instagram | Facebook The Diversity Movement is also actively exploring ways to participate in actions for systemic change in our society. As such, we are making our eLearning module on Unconscious Bias, part of Diversity: Beyond the Checkbox online course (module valued at $250) available for $19 through June 30, 2020. 100% of the proceeds will go to North Carolina organizations that support, educate and empower underserved and marginalized communities in our fight for equality.  The Diversity Movement will also host a webinar entitled, Allyship and Processing Being Black in America, on Friday, June 5, 2020 at 12:00-1:00pm EDT, with special guests: Donald Thompson, Danya Perry and Dr. Deborah Stroman that will explore topics around race and allyship and answer your questions live. We will also make a recorded version of this webinar available for those unable to attend. You can register here to attend. Additionally, if your organization needs assistance in facilitating conversations with your staff, employee resource groups, or making a company-wide statement against racism, we want to help. Contact us at info@thediversitymovement.com today. Related insightsSouthern, Gay, and Grown: A Look Into My Ties to D&I by Kyle Alexander Stop Talking About Diversity Only During Black History Month by Jackie Ferguson 2019-2020 Toronto Raptors: Diversity and Inclusion for Sports Excellence  by Kurt Merriweather


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  • Sharon Delaney McCloud

This new reality we're all living has disrupted our lives as we know it. People's health at risk, schools closed, millions of people working remotely, businesses closing and so many other actions forcing us to stop our normal routines. As humans, we're wired for self-protection and isolating our families at home is now the new norm. But it can be really challenging to go against the grain of our society's typical busy, chaotic schedules.


For me, that's the truth. I don't sit still well. Ever. I've learned over the years that life likes to stretch our capacity. You've certainly heard the only constant we can count on is change. This week, one of my professional speaker colleagues, Dave Rendall, sent out a challenge to all of us who normally speak from stages doing keynotes and TED Talks to instead do a BEDTalk, the #BEDTalkChallenge. Take a look at my BEDTalk below and then let's share how you will #EmbraceThePause and approach our current situations differently.



Share how you'll #EmbraceThePause. Below are some photos of what we're doing at my house. Tag me on Insta @sharondelaneymccloud. I'd love to see your pics.




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